body: I came upon your website this week and have read through all the
text.
I was sued for same sex sexual harrassment over a year ago and have
been searching for some type of closure since that time. The story is so
long and convoluted , I'm sure the details would not be of interest to
most people.
The interesting part of the story is that I am a heterosexual
married woman, I have never had a lesbian relationship and yet I was named
as a co-defendent in a same sex lawsuit. Two years of my life was spent
preparing for the trial. Because the EEOC had found no cause the woman
went to a personal injury attorney who took the case on contingency. The
trial itself lasted a week and by the morning of the last day I knew we
had won. Not only were they not able to prove their case, we were able to
prove they were lying.
I write that we won and there was a brief feeling of elation after all
that tension but I have to say I believe everyone
lost.
It seems to me there are people who cannot take responsibility for
their own lives and happiness. They cannot deal with anger and
disappointment in any way other than blaming sources outside themselves.
These people file claims for disability, workman's comp, and lawsuits
galore. A small cut from a hanger in a retail store becomes grounds for
negligenge, a splinter from the back of a chair in a chain restaurant
becomes grounds for litigation.
I have become much wiser since this event
in my life. I have learned to speak my truth and have it heard.
I have moved on and writting to you is part of my process. Thank
you for giving me the opportunity to express myself. I did not include my
name or email because who knows what litigation could come of this.
Thank You So MUCH for sharing yo'er experience. As you probably are aware,
I too have experienced this process. I too have experienced the way it begins
and perhaps the way, after time, it ends. Others will experience it as well.
Hopefully, and I say this with the greatest amount of hope, others will chose
the ONLY METHOD
that I know for creating the maximum amount of positives from the way we currently live
our lives, and the maximum amount of positives so that
others might learn these lessons and improve as well.
We are ALL CONNECTED .. One to another. What happens to you, and the results,
and the results, do matter to ME !!!
Bob Kennedy
SoCô¿ôL Bob
Just Say Yô¿ô !!!
Your response is SoCô¿ôL !!!
